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Cuts & Caps Tuesday – Celtic Cross

From our drawer of engraved images for printing comes this small Celtic cross. We love Celtic things here at Papillon Press. We would love to visit Ireland and explore castles and pubs, and many other things of course. We’re also fans of the Boston Celtics, who tip off their season tonight. Too bad we don’t have an engraving of Larry Bird.

Stay tuned for more exciting treasures next Tuesday!


Wedding envelope étiquette – from the Emily Post Institute

Here’s something you brides might be interested in – invitation envelope étiquette. I know, it’s very specific. But for those who want to do it the proper way, here’s what the Emily Post Institute has to say.

 

“As the great-grandaughter-in-law of Emily Post, Peggy Post helps carry on her family’s great tradition of teaching etiquette rules for all occasions. Peggy is a director of The Emily Post Institute and the author of more than twelve books.

The world may be getting more casual, but etiquette, especially for weddings, is always relevant.  Here at The Emily Post Institute, we are constantly asked about wedding invitations and related stationery: “What is the proper invitation wording? What are the correct ways to address the envelopes and package the enclosures, and when should invitations be mailed? How to word save-the-date notices and response cards?” Because happy couples and their families rely on you, the retailer, to be their knowledgeable resource, here are some of the Institute’s suggestions for helping your clients with wedding invitation etiquette. Let’s start with the wedding invitation envelope…

One Envelope or Two? Traditionally, a wedding invitation is sent in two envelopes, an outer envelope which is addressed and stamped, and an inner envelope—containing the invitation, reception card, reply card and other material such as directions—which bears the names of the people invited. Although it may seem complicated or overly formal, a second envelope is actually very practical because it clarifies exactly who’s invited: other family members, children, and whether or not an invited guest may bring a guest. It’s perfectly acceptable, however, for a couple to omit inner envelopes.

What’s Written on the Envelopes? The outer envelope is addressed with the names and address of the person(s) invited: Mr. and Mrs. John Smith. The inner envelope repeats the guests’ last names: Mr. and Mrs. Smith. It’s also fine to informally write the names of close relatives and friends: Grandmother, Aunt Sue, or Jessica and Henry on the inner envelope.

Addressing Envelopes 101:

• Addressing a married couple: Wedding invitations are always addressed to both members of a married couple, even though the bride and groom may know only one or think that only one will attend.

• Addressing an unmarried couple living together: Invitations to an unmarried couple residing at the same place are addressed to Ms. Nancy Fellows and Mr. Scott Dunn.

Addressing a married woman doctor or two married doctors: If the woman uses her husband’s name, the address is: Dr. Barbara and Mr. James Werner. If she uses her maiden name: Dr. Barbara Hanson and Mr. James Werner. If her husband is also a doctor and they use his last name, the address is either: The Doctors (or Drs.) Werner, or Drs. Barbara and Robert Werner.

• Handwrite envelopes: Wedding invitations are special. Address them in handwriting—the bride’s, groom’s, friend’s, host’s, or a calligrapher’s. No computer-printed labels!

• Avoid abbreviations: Street and Avenue are written out, although two-letter state abbreviations are okay (due to US Postal Service preference). A person’s middle name may or may not be used. If it is, write it in full instead of abbreviating; omit it if the name won’t fit on one line. It’s okay to abbreviate Mr., Mrs., Ms., and Dr. when addressing envelopes.

• Inviting guests for guests: Write “and Guest” on the inner envelope right after the invited guest’s name. If no inner envelope is used, the “and Guest” phase is not written on the outer one; instead a note is included in the invitation or a verbal invitation is extended by the couple: “Please bring someone with you.”

• Inviting children: If children are invited, their names are written on a line below their parents’ names on the inner envelope. If no inner envelope is used, children’s names are written on the outer envelope. Children aged thirteen and over usually receive their own invitations.

• Using a return address: A return address is necessary for the US Postal Service. The USPS preferred place is the upper left-hand corner of the envelope, but the back flap is okay, too.”

*quote from the National Stationery Show newsletter


Gated invitation – Melina & Emanuele

Well, it was a chilled out Thanksgiving weekend at our house (hallelujah). No turkey and no relatives. However there was beef wellington and there was Secretariat, only one of the greatest horse movies ever made about the greatest horse that ever lived (in Chantal’s opinion). ‘Twas good.

Here is our Gated invitation reprinted for Melina & Emanuele’s winter wedding, finished just in time for the long weekend. We reprinted it in one-colour with a reply card and two envelopes, on our favourite pearl white Crane Lettra.


Autumn inspiration

Every year at this time, I marvel at this colour scheme.

Taken at the end of the driveway

 


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